I got up VERY early (4:45 AM) this morning, wanting to make sure everything was ready, including myself, for the early medical exam this morning. I really wanted to make a GOOD breakfast for Kaysia and Ezekiel, as well as give them a nice WARM bath after they ate (I don’t think they have ever had a warm bath except from Cher and I at the guest house). They LOVED it!! They played with the water, splashed each other, splashed me and splashed the rest of the bathroom J. It was nice being able to do things for the kids by myself without having the “mamas” staring at me and, I’m sure, judging me. I gently washed them, dried them, lotioned them and got them dressed in their OWN clothes, not Sanyu’s but THEIRS. They didn’t say how they felt, but the looks on their faces made my heart sore. I felt like I REALLY was their dad today, being able to look after ALL their needs and even discipline them when needed without a “mama” interfering. I can’t wait to get them home to be able to do this EVERY day!!
The medical exams went pretty much as I expected. I had experience with this doctor before in June and have heard TONS from other people, so I knew he would already have VERY prejudiced views of my kids before even looking at them. He did not disappoint. My kids however, made me SO proud and put the doctor’s foot in his mouth MANY times, proving EVERYTHING he said before looking at them wrong as he went about his exam. Good job kids!! I had a few surprises for the doc too, with my previous parenting experience and adoption experience, so I hope he enjoyed the humble pie today J. With that said, the kids passed the exam with flying colors and the forms were sent away to the Canadian Consulate to make it in time for the diplomatic bag to Nairobi to the High Commission. Medical exams complete – check. Visa applications complete – check. Bring on the visas!!
I didn’t want to bring the kids back right away, so we walked (with the help of a Ugandan friend that came along with us to the appointment) to the big shopping mall not too far away and had “morning tea”. It was nice and the cafĂ© even had an internet “hot spot” so we were able to Skype with mommy. Even though it was hard to hear each other, it was nice to be able to see mommy and talk even though it was only briefly. Thanks for staying up later to do it mommy! Overall, it was a GREAT morning with the kids!
This afternoon I was able to go to the street-boy feeding program. I haven’t been in a while, so it was “nice” to be back. God has been using this time to teach me SO much. I have wanted to share some thoughts with you for a while, but the time never seemed right. But today, even though the time may not seem right, I want to share it anyway.
**Disclaimer – some of you reading may not agree with what I am about to type and may not like to “hear” it, but God has placed it on my heart, so know that I am not trying to offend but ignite a spark in the hearts of those God is calling and need a “push” to get going**
After being involved in the programs for more then 2 months, I thought my heart would become desensitized to the things I see in the slums.
This is definitely NOT the case!
My heart breaks EVERY time I go.
I can truly see that if my heart is breaking for these boys, in a small area of a city in a relatively small country in the world, that God’s heart must be torn in two for ALL of the babies, children, youths, and even adults throughout the world that suffer from poverty, homelessness, abandonment, being orphans and so much more.
Many of these children are orphans – 147 million approximately around the world!
My heart is breaking just typing that staggering number!
What breaks my heart even more then that is what we as “Christians” are (or aren’t) doing about it!!
I don’t have hard numbers or facts here, but I am pretty sure if even ONE QUARTER of the people who claim to be Christians actually did something about it, actually stepped out in faith and adopted one child, that there would be no more orphans in the world.
“Can’t” adopt for some reason?
Are you REALLY sure?
Try watching this:
Why Wouldn't I?
Now granted, there are people who really can’t adopt BUT are you supporting, financially helping, sacrificially giving and making a difference for some one who can and is willing? Not everyone has to adopt to create a solution BUT everyone SHOULD get involved in one way or another. The Bible seems pretty black and white about this to me – Matthew 25:31-46 (I’ll just quote verse 40), “The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’” And James 1:27, “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”
These verses are obviously close to my heart but being in Uganda and working in the street-boy program has made it even more real to me. Working with the orphaned and abandoned or outcast has really broken my heart for the things that break God’s heart. I may be leaving Uganda soon, but my work for the orphaned, abandoned, outcast, destitute, etc will NEVER end as long as these exist. And Jesus says, “You will ALWAYS have the poor,” (Matthew 26:11, Mark 14:7, John 12:8 & in the Old Testament Deuteronomy 15:11) which means that WE are not supposed to EVER stop working and serving “the least of these”. What is God calling you to do today for “the least of these”? Adopt? Support someone who is? Work in a street-boy program or some other program for the poor, homeless, abandoned, orphaned, widowed? Get out there and do it!
Fighting in Uganda
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